Briony Hale

  • Writing vs. Productivity

    August 1st, 2023

    I’ve been reading a lot about writers trying to maintain productivity while balancing everything in their life, and falling short.

    If I’m being completely honest, I’ve been having a hard time keeping up lately. With my day job, with my craft, with my friends, with my family, with the housework. There just feels like so much to do.

    All around me (and I realize how much of this is my own fault) the language of productivity hovers like low-grade pollution. There’s the corporate kind, encouraging you to “manage your own career” by doing four people’s jobs at once with the promise that it will pay off someday, we swear, in the form of more money and even less of a life.

    There’s the #girlboss kind, the social media philosophies pretending to be feminism that don’t just say you can have it all, they demand it. Have a #cleangirl #minimalist home, replace breakfast with green smoothies but never be hungry, have cute decorations and buy the latest TikTok trending item but don’t be materialistic. Be a trend chaser but never, ever try too hard.

    I have a lot of plates spinning, except most of the time… I don’t. When I say I can’t keep up, I mean that quite literally. I can’t do everything that I want to (or think I should) in a day. There is always, always, always something getting pushed off.

    That thing is never writing.

    I’m lucky. I know that. I have no delusions on that front. I have one job which sufficiently pays all of my bills. I don’t have children, or care for elderly relatives. I have a lot more wiggle room in my life than other people.

    But I also prioritize writing over everything. If I have to choose between writing and cleaning, the dishes stay in the sink. If I have to choose between writing and laundry, I’m wearing yesterday’s tee shirt and a lot of perfume. If I have to choose between writing and making dinner… there’s a salad and go across the street.

    Other people have different priorities. That’s okay. But often writing gets pushed off. There’s always something more important. Sometimes the thing that’s more important than writing is legitimate, like housekeeping or childcare or an additional job.

    Sometimes, the things people prioritize over their writing is social media. Netflix. Video games. Binging distractions so you don’t have to actually put in the work. I don’t want to be that person. I want to be focused, I want to get things done, but I want to keep actively prioritizing my writing.

    I don’t have a snappy conclusion. I just hope that I can keep showing up here to prove I showed up, that as I look back at this part of my life in the future I remember how hard I worked at something that seemed impossible, and I don’t remember the giant pile of floor laundry.

    I could spend another half an hour trying to tie this together nicely, but I have other priorities.

    BH ❤

  • Review: Becoming A Writer

    July 24th, 2023

    I was recently introduced to the book Becoming A Writer by Dorothea Brande, which was touted at the time as a superior alternative to the myriad blogs, YouTube videos, social media channels, and the like in which people with no experience give out writing advice.

    Ever in search of the less popular craft books, I managed to snag a thrifted copy and perused it over the course of a number of evenings. Brande’s take on writing is unique in the fact that, being published in 1934, it doesn’t reference social media, television, or the internet in any way. (While it seems difficult do to so in the modern age, I would argue that the craft of writing itself can and should be done free from the distractions of modern technology as much as possible, even if publishing can be done exclusively online.)

    Becoming A Writer is less about the craft of writing fiction than the psychology of committing oneself to writing regularly, and Brande rather astutely indicates that developing one’s beliefs about writing, and oneself, are preliminary to the work of developing one’s craft.

    There are a few key takeaways from the volume overall, which can rather easily be distilled to this:

    • There exists in oneself both a creative mind and a critical one, the writer and the editor, and the person who can command them both, keep them separate, and call upon each skill when appropriate will be successful where one’s peers will fail.
    • One’s literary voice is compromised, however unintentionally, by reading the prose of others, and so every measure should be taken to ensure one is writing daily before being exposed to rhetorical influence.
    • Writing is, fundamentally, about human experience. Having a wide variety of interesting experiences (material and emotional) will give one a wealth of foundation to choose from when writing.
    • The originality of you will lead to the originality of your work. Brande outlines an exercise in which she asked every member of her writing class to construct a short story based on the barest, “tritest” outline (a one sentence summary). Brande states that in spite of the fact she, herself, could only construct two version of the same story from this outline, her students produced “twelve versions so different from each other that any editor could have read them all on the same day without realizing that the point of departure was the same in each” (pg, 127). She observes that each student “had seen the situation in some purely personal light, and that what seemed so inevitable to her was fresh and unforeseen to others” (pg. 127-128).
    • Brande advocates for series of exercises, which include optimizing oneself ergonomically so that the physical act of writing does not become painful or burdensome for long periods of time, rising early and writing before all other distraction or exposure to the work of others, and developing the discipline of writing on schedule.

    While I enjoy Brande’s style, a lot of this insight will feel familiar to people who spend a lot of time on internet communities oriented around writing. Where Brande really shines is in the last few chapters of the book. She deviates from discussion of writing exercises to focus on what she considers the third piece of a triad, in which genius joins the artist and the critic. Brande spends these last pages exploring the relationship between mind, body, and genius, drawing her conclusions from commonalities in the processes of writers who, on the surface, seem wildly different.

    While I don’t think everyone has to go buy this one immediately, the fact that it’s fairly simple to thrift for cheap, and is a quick read, makes it something I would readily recommend to the curious, collectors of craft books, or someone very new to the craft who might better be served actually writing than scouring the internet for a good little tidbit of writing advice.

    Speaking of which, a draft is calling me…

    BH ❤

  • Belated Beginnings

    July 17th, 2023

    I admit, I intended to start this a few weeks ago and got caught up. I wish I was one of those over-productive people who could go full steam ahead even while on vacation, but I took a few weeks off (planned, I had PTO) and even the housework took a break. It’s kind of a problem hole I dug myself which I now have to crawl my way out of, but I feel better than I did before. More rested. More relaxed. Less stressed, even though I objective put more on my plate than I had been trying to juggle before my time off.

    I’m trying to balance my day job, which I have to do all the time so I won’t be homeless, with my housekeeping duties, which I have to do to justify working so much to pay rent for. Nothing makes your mental health take a hit quite like having a home that isn’t up to par. Clutter and mess and disorganization and piled up dishes you haven’t cleaned will tank your creativity faster than anything.

    And on top of that I have multiple projects I’m juggling, tentative titles I’ll be keeping to myself just a little bit longer, while also trying to do all the necessary ground work to make sure that I’m making good stuff while I’m doing the creative work.

    Objectively, it looks like a lot for one person to have on their plate all on their own, and subjectively it just feels like spinning a hundred thousand plates at once. I know that the pace I want to set won’t be sustainable long term, and I’m unfortunately a work horse. I have the kind of personality that I could work myself to burnout every three weeks if left unchecked. I definitely don’t want to do that.

    But I’m also feeling so, so excited for the future and energized right now, and I want to make sure that I capitalize on every ounce of initiative I have while I still have it. The more I can systematize and automate the parts of my life that are sisyphean, the better it will be for my creative work in the long run.

    I’m trying to finish up one craft book, which I hope to ~review next week, but I’m also reading fiction for background research on a secondary project. In the meantime, the steady clackety sound you’ll hear will be me abusing my poor, poor keyboard.

    Much love,

    BH ❤

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